Many of the Artesia volleyball fans take it for granted when they see Kirklyn Miller set the perfect ball to outside hitter Kailee Padilla, flying in from the left side and going high over the net for a kill shot. Miller’s shot against Lovington helped the Lady’ Dogs to an 18-5 record and a 4-2 District 4-4A second-place finish on Thursday.
Next step
That success belies the hard work and effort that have gone into her development, in which she made a verbal commitment to Western Colorado University to continue her playing career and education. There is a tension between mother and daughter under the best of conditions. As a single mother, Mandi Lewallen, 46, raised two girls in a town (Artesia) where she knew no one. It was different and tricky.
Padilla started playing club volleyball in third grade, and according to her mother, she could not serve it over the net. Lewallen has been the assistant coach at Artesia under Alan Williams and has helped coached her daughter for the last three years.
“It has been fun,” Lewallen said. “I don’t think people realize it is a hard relationship to have, to be mother and daughter. I am hard on her, and she has to go home and hear more about it. I am trying to be a mom, but at the same time, I am trying to be a coach, like ‘hey, this could have been better.’ I am on her (Padilla), so there is never a rest period. I have tried to do better this year in her senior year and take it all in. Again, that is a hard relationship.”
Lewallen said while Padilla was growing up, she made sure to put Padilla in camps with better athletes, not only to humble her but also to help her grow as an athlete.
Padilla is getting to celebrate the wins with her mother, whom she is close to and feels blessed to have a good relationship with. Lewallen has pushed Padilla, made her better, and helped her get to where she is now.
Relationship
“Our relationship has stayed the same between my junior year and senior year,” Padilla said. “My mindset has always been to get better. My mom continues to push me, and because it is my senior year, there is no time to take a break. I want to be the best that I can be for my teammates.”
Padilla said volleyball is a mental sport and that she has grown up and improved each season. For Lewallen, this season is one in which she is not taking the time she spends with Padilla for granted, and she realizes it will not hit her until Padilla is no longer playing at Artesia High School next year.
“Watching her (Padilla) grow in her faith, Lewallen said, “and knowing that she has put in everything that she possibly can. From day one, there have been no regrets for her or for me because we make sure God is the center of everything we do and in the decisions we make. And how we get through things just us. It has been fun, and we are trying to take it all in.”
Lewallen said it has just been the three of them, including the youngest daughter, Kenzie, and that wherever Lewallen has been, all three have been together. The Artesia community has helped raise them since they were small.

Single mom
Lewallen said the family’s success would not be possible without her parents, Jackie and Denny Powell. Also, that she could not have been the parent she was without their help and guidance. When Lewallen needed to work, her mom would pick up the girls when they were little.
“We have an amazing village that has helped raise my kids,” Lewallen said. “I missed soccer and volleyball games while coaching. I was gone quite a bit when they were young, but I was blessed to have people step in and help me.”
Lewallen served as the head volleyball coach at Ruidoso for two years, but felt God’s pull and was led to Artesia, where she has been a coach for 15 years. Lewallen coached the Bulldogs to the 2021 state championship when head coach Alan Williams was out with COVID. Lewallen said that the championship team played for each other, and the team’s scripture was Ephesians 3:20, that you are playing for more than yourselves, striving for someone higher than you.
“I feel so blessed for the people I have had in my life,” Padilla said. “I would not trade it for anything.

Strength
“I am hard on my girls because I want them to be strong,” Lewallen said. “I want them to push to be the best that they can be. I coach that way, too. I raise the bar, and I want the expectations to match. I want them to know that not everyone has or is blessed to have the opportunities they have.
If you don’t get something you think you deserve, then you need to work harder. Do not lay off in the weight room, and do not lay off when you are asked to do stuff. That work ethic will continue as they get older, and I hope it carries over into their jobs, families, and anything they choose to do outside of this. That is how I wanted to raise them.”




